First things first, wishing all my American followers (apparently now “subscribers” – WTF WordPress?) a very happy Thanksgiving. I know, no obligatory Thanksgiving post here, but if you want you can refer to the list I made for National Gratitude Day because it’s definitely applicable!
With that out of the way, I’m sure any of you who listened to the radio in the Early-2000s got the reference in the title of this post right away. If you didn’t, well, let’s just say you’ve been living under a rock all these years.
So last night my wonderful companion (who I am *very* thankful for, I should re-iterate!) checked out a new bar in hopes of finding another karaoke venue as one of our stand-by venues definitely seems to be on its last leg (I give it until spring/summer of next year honestly – the place is dying rapidly). What we stumbled upon was this small little hole-in-the-wall bar in the middle of a strip mall with a couple of ethnic restaurants and a nail salon next door (of all things). What we walked into was a cozy bar with a tavern-like feel to it. More details to come soon on Texas Bite & Sip.
When we arrived the bar was pretty empty, and my companion and I did our first two songs of the night in pretty rapid succession (a double shot of Alice in Chains, followed by some Pearl Jam for her and The Church for me), after which the bar filled very rapidly and the queue for karaoke quickly mushroomed to like 16 people (not including those just there to watch their friends). Needless to say it got loud and packed in there.
After about a 50-ish minute wait, the list finally cycled back to us. Laina went right before me with one of her stand-by songs – TFF’s “Everybody Wants to Rule the World” (ProTip: if you’re singing to the Sound Choice or Sunfly versions of EWTRTW, ask the KJ to drop it a half-step if you want to sing it in the original key – the karaoke covers are a half step higher), and then I just had to complicate things (LOL!) and gender bend right after.
I was a little worried about looking like a fool (again, LOL!) as none of the male performers had gender bent yet that night, so I was nervous as to how that was going to be received. Alas, my worries were nearly instantly abated. As soon as that opening D-minor chord played and I did the little speak-sing opening “uh-huh, life’s like this” line the crowd went absolutely nuts – in a *good* way. By the time I got to the first verse the entire crowd was singing with me so loudly I couldn’t even hear myself in the PA so I wasn’t even sure if I was on key or not. I guess I did a decent job though, because I got some of the strongest applause during the time we were there.
We stayed and did one more song together – Fleetwood Mac’s “The Chain” – one of our signature duets. We weren’t sure how that would be received by the younger crowd but there were a few who were jamming to it and we got some faint applause and fistbumps as we left the bar.
Again, I’m writing new code little by little. Each time something like this happens a little bit of the pain from what happened to me all those years ago goes away. It’s a process for sure, and I’m nowhere near done repairing the damage, but little gifts like that go a long way.
And yes, in the spirit of today, I’m very thankful for experiences like that as they continue to heal my wounded soul. I know I’ve needed this for a very long time. If anyone who was at Who’s Who Cocktails in San Antonio on the night of Wednesday 11/22/2023 around 10PM is reading this, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. You can’t come close to imagining the magnitude of what you did to heal me last night. You might have just been singing along to a super-catchy song (and maybe a little bit of surprise and novelty factor seeing a guy singing Avril Lavigne!) in your mind, but for me it goes way, way deeper.
Anyway, time to go tend to some sprouts and some chicken pho I’ve been simmering in the slow cooker overnight (we’re very non-traditional here), so over and out. Have a great Thanksgiving, or just a great day, depending on where you’re at in the world.